Three cheers to Steve Sidewalk, Lxs Eventos and Antonio

With the thought of hiding eggs for my nieces and nephews on Easter Morning and a non-stop chain of relatives calling from dawn until noon reminding me about where I have to be and when I was thankful to be able to anticipate a late night of craziness with Antonio Cedeno and he delivered .
Allow me to back track. It seems I am the only one in my family that can hid Easter eggs and remember where I hid them. My mother, God rests her soul, would hide the eggs in the back yard so well and then forget where she hid them. We wouldn’t find them until the fall when the flowers died and we were raking leaves. We have cousins and their kids that come over, and neighbors join in. I hide about 160 eggs. The kids carry their baskets and collect as many as they can. I think it is the one tradition that didn’t change when my parents passed away. The kids, and adults look forward to it and we play it up for the kids. Of course you have to go to mass and have a big Easter breakfast before the egg hunt. Being in charge of hiding the eggs is like being in charge of someone’s kidney during a transplant. Everyone needs to know where I am at all times until the eggs are hidden. I left my cell phone in the car and escaped to Feathers. I was overcome with the decorations that adorned the whole downstairs. There were red ribbons to remind everyone why they were there.
Saturday was the last night of a three night fundraiser to benefit NJCR, an organization that helps people with HIV/ AIDS..
Steve Sidewalk hosted the first night on Wednesday and in true “Sidewalk” tradition he packed the place with over 600 people and raised over $1,500.00. He gave away tickets to Lady Ga-Ga . People are still posting about the fun they had at Steve’s fundraiser. Thursday found Lxs Eventos hosting Latin Night benefit continuing the benefit raising over $800.00! Applause to Lady Tita, John Martin, and the terrific staff!!! Amazing how even in the most depressing of times these promoters are able to do so much to benefit others! HATS OFF TO YOU GUYS!
So there I was in the middle of cheap drinks, LA FITNESS Gym Membership give-a ways, condoms and hot guys! What more do you need in life? GREAT entertainment and that was also provided! I do not know Antonio Cedeno pulls these things off, but he actually had Gioia Bruno from Expose http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=518751959&sk=info
She tore up the dance floor performing old and new songs! What A FREAKING GREAT PERFORMER! Cheering her on was Alexa Prisco from Jerseylicious ! She was so sweet and had conversations with everyone ! These ladies made the party memorable for everyone! Gioia surprised everyone and had a meet and greet downstairs! The night just kept getting better. As I got a HOT and much needed massage from “HOT HANDS” Scotty J, I wondered if life gets any better and found out-IT DOES!
The cherry on top of the ice cream sundae of life was Go-go dancer Willie. Willie has got to be the best thing to ever enter a gay bar! WARM - WONDERFUL AND WAGGING!
Between Willie and DJ John Rizzo, who was spinning on the dance floor, you could not walk upstairs. It was one of those nights when it’s last call before you know it. The night ended with Antonio raising a total of over $3,000.00. They also had HIV testing in the parking lot so there were many people who slept comfortable that night knowing that safe-sex does save lives. I was snuggling in with my sweet dreams until the phone started to ring..
“What Mass are you going to?”
“Are you bringing flowers or a balloon for mommy and daddy’s grave?”
“Did you hide the eggs?”
“Don’t hide them too high, Kelly is wearing a dress and the boys will see up her dress if she has to reach up.”
“Where are you coming over?”
“Did you get up yet?”
All this before 8am
I rolled out of bed into the shower

I do my Catholic tradition thing and go to church on Easter Sunday and I do my other Catholic tradition thing and leave during communion. This 90 year old man stops me and informs me that it doesn't count if you leave before the priest ends mass..."Be ashamed to have wasted an hour here and not have it count." Who makes up these rules?...I stayed-Catholic tradition of guilt trumps Catholic tradition of quick get-away.
Happy EASTER and thanks for caring

AIDS benefit benefits YOU

It’s Time to put your money, not your lip gloss, where your mouth is
Many years ago before most of you could hold a pencil, never-mind a cell phone, there were the greatest happiest group of people! The world called them “gay” because they were always smiling and having the time of their lives! They had boyfriends and lovers and jet-setted around the world…Then came AIDS
I was there when the New York Times article hit the papers and the fear of dying was first and fore most on everyone’s mind. You were afraid to love someone because you had no idea what they had, or who they slept with. So many of my friends were addicted to the life style we grew up with - celibacy was not an option and they paid with their lives. We had a President that was more concerned with space adventure than finding a cure. The NATIONAL NEWS reported that you could contact AIDS by touching. Every effeminine guy was thrown to the wolves and the "Straight acting" hid even further into their closets. It didn't matter what kind of person you were, just what kind of person you looked like. If you lost weight they accused you of having AIDS-people stayed away from you. I saw bartenders throw glasses into the garbage afraid that it was infected. People died alone because hospitals wouldn't let anyone near AIDS patients. As I type and look back I wonder, “Am I really the lucky one?” I survive with the memory of the way it was.
This week Antonio Cedeno is partnering up with Steve Sidewalk and Lxs Eventos and creating a fund raising event that will knock AIDS out of this world and it is about time!
You can read the flyers to find out all the fun events and surprise guest and the hot go-go guys, I want you to go because you care and YOU want to be one of the people who make a DIFFERENCE!
You have the POWER to count- Come out and drop a five dollar bill!
My memories of the bar life in the 80’s are clouded by customers melting away to nothing right before my eyes.
My memories of the bar life in the 80’s are clouded by going to funerals every other night.
Over 2 million people are newly infected each year! The number is growing and the concern is not!
$5.00 or more to care!
Bring in that annoying change that can add up to a cure!
Be the HERO generation!
My best friend (pictured)said it best, after finding out he was HIV+ he told me he felt relieved. I was puzzled until he told me why- “I don’t want to die, but I don’t want to live being afraid of dying.” All he wanted was someone to love him and it was that search that took his life. None of us should have to be afraid to make love to find love! Maybe I am lucky for knowing him.
$5.00 or more to care!
Come out and show that you care
Come out and show that you want to love with-out a death sentence.
Spare change can spare a life
Your $5.00 can be the $5.00 that finances the cure.

I needed a Divine Resurrection

SATURDAY NIGHT
So while I spent a night in an ER with sick people, trying in vain to avoid contact with them, all the hot gay men in the WORLD were at Club Feathers finding true love and happiness! That is the story of my life! Borrowing a line from one of the greatest gay icons, a date to the first who can guess who I am referring to, “Let’s start at the very beginning…. “
Last night (FRIDAY) I was full of the fire that light many a hearts aflame. I was feeling the feeling and walking the walk. I had one of those bounces that only a man with confidence can pull off- or one with a lot of money! Anyway I had wanted to go out and see Tony Mona and experience the whole “BOY-Lesque”, which I hear is really a fun time. I was pumped and feeling a little achy. I figured it was from working out and was glad to hear that Scott J was going to be there giving those body rub downs and my body was crying for his fingers! I did what every gay guy does, laid down for a disco nap. Well, the” nap” ended up lasting 8 hours! I woke to not only being stuffy and congested, but in a pool of sweat!
I was so looking forward to seeing both Tony’s and sharing laughs and drinks with them and all I ended up doing was coughing and sweating and cursing out the little brats that I teach!
How many times do you have to tell a child to COVER THEIR MOUTHS!
This one kid was sick all week and was using all the tissues. His mother refused to buy any tissues for the classroom community center.
At the beginning of the year parents donate classroom items like tissues, paper towels, hand soap…etc.
I told him to tell his mother we were running out of tissues. She refused to send any in with him so I refused to open any new boxes. The kid sneezes and it’s dripping from his nose. “Mr. R what am I going to wipe my nose with?” he asked in a panic. “Use your sleeve.” I told him as I continued with the lesson. “That is disgusting! “ he cried…”So are the snots dripping from your nose.”…He brought in three boxes of tissues the next day. So I guess he is having the last laugh as I lay sick and missing out on the club parties.
Tonight is Antonio Cedeno presents Divine Resurrection. They are having a fashion show featuring Fusion Apparel.
Check out the site http://www.fusionapparels.com/
Hot models and Logan Hardcore hosting! John Rizzo is spinning and from what I hear he is tearing the place apart! Nice Job Rizzo! Drinks, shots and a GREAT Time was had by all---You know twitter can be a painful reminder when you are in an emergency room with stomach pains.
So great and where am I---looking at the sick people in Harlem Hospital’s ER. I was actually quite surprised that there weren’t any gun shoot victims or rapes. Instead I get a homeless woman asking for my empty cup of coffee so she can pee in it…”Why don’t you just use the bathroom over there.” “Listen Fancy Man I’ll Pee where I want to!”
Note to self-Do NOT talk to homeless people.
How did I end up in Harlem you may be wondering, well…I had been promising a friend that I would take her out to dinner. I kept blowing her off and decided I couldn’t anymore. I thought if I forced myself to go out I would feel better. I got my friend’s apartment. “Sweetie you look like shit!” was how I was greeted…So glad I paid a toll and squeezed my car into a spot that a shopping cart could fit into. ..”Do you want to go to the hospital?” “Do you think I need to?” Her actions spoke louder than words- she was spraying Lysol all over everything I touched. So there we were in the ER.
Note to self- Do NOT visit a friend who is a hypochondria when you are feeling sick!
I took out my journal while my friend texted how her life sucked because she had to spend her Saturday night in an emergency room. I was writing about turning down a date with Brad Pitt because I think too much of Angelina Jolie. “Why are you writing those lies?” she barked! “Because if I have to get wheeled down for an operation I want the nosey nurse who reads this to tell the doctor I am someone important and not to mess up!” Then she gets this text and her face lights up! “You know you don’t really look sick anymore. I have to run. Can we do dinner next week? Bye love.” She brush kisses me and literally leaves me in this emergency room in Harlem!
Note to self- weed out my facebook friends.
I am sitting in the Emergency room wondering how I got where I was and wondering if I had time to catch Antonio’s fashion show when they homeless lady comes back and hands me my cup back. Not realizing what was in it. When I did I screamed and the piss went all over me…So much for going out!
Not to self- Don’t scream like a girl when holding a cup of piss!
On an up note I will be there for the event of the YEAR!!!!!
UNITED For Our COMMUNITY: 3-DAY FUNDRAISER for HIV/AIDS

a ONE-TIME SPECIAL EVENT: 3-DAY FUNDRAISER for HIV/AIDS

POP WEDNESDAYS, APRIL 20TH
LATINO THURSDAYS, APRIL 21ST (KANDELA STYLE)
DANCE SATURDAYS, APRIL 23RD

PROMOTERS ANTONIO CEDENO, DJ STEVE SIDEWALK AND LXS PRODUCTIONS are putting their creative heads together and creating an event that has to be experienced in person! More to come as the details are revealed! Sign Up to Antonio Cedeno Presents on Facebook for up-to-date details!

TONY MONA TONIGHT AT CLUB FEATHERS

So a friend calls me up and asked, “What are you doing tonight?” HELLO! Friday night NYC!!! But, first we have to stop at Feathers.” “Feathers? “he questioned….
“Duh! It’s the appetizer to a GREAT night!”
MUST GO OUT TONIGHT!!!
I am not sure if people know this but for a five dollar admission you get Wednesday night prices until midnight! I can throw back a few Vodka/ Tonics for under ten dollars and hit the City humming!
It’s fun to unwind and have a few drinks and chat with the friendly staff. You can also grab a GREAT massage from Scott J whose magic fingers and HOT body is worth the cost of admission!
If you go on a Saturday they give you a coupon for FREE admission or mention Antonio Cedeno’s name and admission is free. How can you lose?
Hope to see you there tonight!
Be fore warned DJ John Rizzo is spinning tonight and you may find yourself staying a lot longer than you planned- which isn’t terrible! TONY MONA is hosting “Boy- lesque”! -the hottest strip show in the metro area!
TONY MONA CELBRATING MORE YEARS THAN ANY OF US CARE TO REMEMBER!
STILL GOING STRONG AND THE BEST ENTERTAINMENT!!!
Did I mention that you also get to watch RuPaul’s Drag Race THREE DAYS IN ADVANCE! Why wait till Monday for a show you can watch tonight!!!!
HOT MEN + GREAT MUSIC + CHEAP DRINKS + CLUB FEATHERS!